5 things you have to know about German guys
I hear it over and over again. Women often have no idea what to know about German guys. So keep reading to find out the most important things.
Ok ladies, here are some tips you must bear in mind in case you are interested in any German guy. Don’t get desperate if you feel they pay no attention to you. It seems to be very normal…
5 things you have to know about German guys:
1. They are usually responsible. Of course I’m generalizing in all of these points. But every generalization is partly true. They like having fun, but only when it’s appropriate. If you come from Latin lands and shout when talking, you’ll scare him. If you are laughing all the time, they’ll think you don’t take anything seriously.
2. You’ll notice that, in a club or a disco, very few of German guys come to you and flirt. This is because they like being approached by the girl. No, seriously! Unless the girl is too aggressive. Be careful and play it nice!
3. Notice that German men have a hard time flirting too because ”apparently” some German women are very mean. They are prone to reject any guy that hits on them and that’s also why the German guys are so shy.
But also some girls don’t like their male friends to flirt around with others and much less if you are a foreigner traveler. You’ll have to work hard! Try to catch him far from the group, when going to the toilet, for example.
with a German guy in Teotihuacan
4. If you are a stranger, it will be more difficult to be approached by a German guy. This is due to their shyness, not any other reason they do not approach strangers because they feel much more comfortable with their female friends from the kindergarten. But that doesn’t mean they are not interested.
5. In Germany, a man can be passionately in love with you for years and you would not have any idea. (I mean is that really so normal?)
So, here’s the thing.
Let’s be honest.
Do NOT expect a spontaneous crazy night with a German – remember I am generalizing, you can always find the exception.
But if you are really interested in one of these guys, try to be his friend first, meet several times for a cup of tea or a movie, and stir up his interest until he can’t help but succumb to your charms…
TIP 1: More information about my ultimate guide to flirting on the road or even sex when traveling can be found here.
TIP 2: If you want to learn from my mistakes, read about the one thing I’ve learned from my relationships with guys.
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Honey
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I’ve meet a german guy close to my age.He’s quite shy whenever we talk and doesn’t really make the first move.However,he’s fun to talk with and is very intellectual in answering questions. :)
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Thumbs up for him being intellectual ;)
Renae
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I just met a guy who is from Germany and I like him, but we’ve only just met and he’s very hard to talk to. Hope he opens up more to me, I would love to be his girlfriend!
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Good luck, Renae ;)
Gwynne
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https://My comment is on the Germen male. I’m going to say I’ve got the exceptional one, we met on line sent emails,texted, and even talked every day…:-). There is no shyness in this man. We love 20 hours apart. On the good side we finally met in person spent a week together. This man knows how to please in and out of the bedroom!! He’s been gone for a month now, we are closer now, and getting closer, 18 days he comes back. We’ve talked about him moving here. We both live in the states.Lol he’s funny, carring, non-selfish we both know what priorities are. We both know what can make or break a relationship!! I’m 10 years older then him. Should that matter? :-) :-)
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Sounds awesome, Gwynne. Age is just a number ;) Good luck!
Delilahfeli
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I’m an American woman and I met my German guy while he was visiting the States for school. I approached him because he was so tall, he is 6’5″ and gorgeous and I knew he wasn’t from around here. Anyway, he never flirts with me but he always let’s me know how happy he is to see me. He’s extremely well mannered and respectful. Although we have been intimate, I am afraid to talk in a sexual way to him. It seems like he wouldn’t know what to say back, lol. It’s strange because he’s so friendly to me but we obviously aren’t in the friend zone. With American men, there is a lot of flirting that leads up to sex but with my German, it’s a very odd transition from talking about something serious straight to sex. I’m like, “how did we get here?” Lol. He’s the best guy I ever met though. Very reliable, respectful and almost innocent in a cute way. He says that he feels like a new person here in the States (Los Angeles) because he has to be so different person in Germany. I think he prefers it here and he definitely prefers me. He said that I am much more confident, outgoing, and nicer than German women.
Robert
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I am German and you are absolutely right about German man.
It took me many years to rid of that shyness.
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Aw, it’s sweet in a way :)
Sonja Hargreaves
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Hey l feel the same way,l have been friends with a German man gor over 16mths tgen he asked me to marry him,we have been engaged 4 6mths more when his dog got sick &he faced inner turmoil from prostate trouble,he texts me every few days now it used 2 b everyday :-(,he used to flirt with me &we made sum plans 4 the future,lm still waiting dont know weither he is still into me though?German men r different from anyone l have ever met,how can l gain his interest more its not good 4 a woman to chase a man ???? SONJA
Candy2
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I have a German boyfriend. At the moment we having distant relationship. I don’t know what to think. I love him. He loves me too. “I think”. But he always have female friends they visit themselves to their apartments they share everything. They do BBQ, Sports and… I can’t say anything to him. He is only my boyfriend. I am starting to be a bit jealous. In the other hand He is trying to be honest (I feel he has the Nazy love) I’m frighten sometimes. Do I really need to finish or do I have to continue with this relationship. please please reply to me what should I do?
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Oh, I cannot really help you with your relationship, so sorry. What helps me personally is to write down all the positive and negative things in the relationship and then check them out to realize what would be the best to do :) Good luck!
Twandas
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I met a German guy and he is so sweet, we been talking for a while and he told me that a couple months from now he wants us to move in together :)
Izy Berry - The Wrong Way Home
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This is so funny! I have found it interesting how different people from different cultures are!!!
Brianna
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My father was adopted in Germany and he is shy lol
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Haha what a funny fact, Brianna :)
tara
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i’ve had a german male friend for eleven years now and had no idea he even liked me a lot till a mutual friend told me. so after finding the information i told him i like him. best decision ever.there is talk about us meeting eachother..plus we have began to write letters back and forth.
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Fingers crossed, Tara :)
MiciROX
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Quite interesting. I had an exchange in Germany and I see this as generally accurate. I feel that I need to be the first to smile to the guy to catch his attention before he’ll come to me.
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Well, German guys, what else can I say, Mici :)
Robin Who
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I’m a german gut and It’s true, we are pretty shy in relationships.
Suz
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German guy came to my church in sept! There was sparks straight away! He stirs at me all the time yet doesn’t make a move! He tells me a lot of private things! We get on so well! Every time it looks like something might happen he puts these walls up! I don’t no what to think
leila
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@ Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler:
very true, I am lebanese my BF is german , he is the first man that I met in my life who never took his pants off that fast , we enjoyed dating for months, going for dinners, watching movies ,he even invited me to his place and cooked dinner and never touched me , till I felt i need to rape him at the end cuz he is shy lolllllllllllll
in general , german men are nice and kind and generouse , but sometimes they are too streight forward in annoying way sometimes.
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Haha your comment made me laugh, Leila. Taking it slow sometimes can be nice and cute, until certain point, so I agree with you :)
D
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Totally true! My “man friend” is german and I sometimes don’t know what to think! I’m a very sexual person and even though I hated men who were macho jerks, it became frustrating when I felt my cues were going unnoticed. Sometimes I have to like spell it out. He’s very cautious but he is very sweet and romantic and a dreamer which is adorable. When it comes to flirting I always have to make the move and usually it ends with me going “let me spell it out, I think you are hot.” I always had the impression german men were dominating in which my man friend replies “I think our domination gene got knocked down a peg after the war babe.” You have to work hard ladies but totally worth it!
Comment@ T:
@ T:
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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Such a great comment, thank you :)
T
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LOL It’s so true,my fiance is German,and when we first met we talked about the safest things like the weather,we’d have these small menial conversations,and after weeks of this he had gone to my friend and asked her if I liked him,and of course she told me about it. I was floored,he had all these feelings for me and gave off NO indication,I couldn’t even believe he liked me as a human being let alone loved me a person.
But,it was quite refreshing,not to be hit on in the first few minutes of meeting a person. He took time to get to know me,and even when my friend told him I didn’t like him… TWICE,he still came back every day to have these pointless conversations. Only very recently we’ve exchanged the ‘I love you’s’. And it didn’t even matter,he’s the first man I’ve ever known that never needed to say it to me,because he had spent our whole relationship showing me.
If you give them a chance,they are a species of men that can truly impress you. Something I’ve seen in them -generally speaking- is their loyalty to their woman. LOL But maybe that goes back to point 3 on the list.
Crazy Sexy Fun Traveler
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So happy for you, Tia ;) Thanks for sharing your story, really interesting :) Good luck in the future!
Crazy sexy fun traveler
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Comment@ Sebastian:
Hahaha sweet! Funny to see how most of the people agree with the majority in this post :D
Sebastian
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I found this since offthepathcom follows me on twitter since a few days and posted about your blog. I first was shocked when i read the title of this post :) but kinda 80% are true! and yes our women can be truly mean :D just kidding, i know quite a few nice ones but never had the courage to ask for more
crazy sexy fun traveler
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Comment@ Vera:
Cool to see you agreed, Vera :)
Vera
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Since I am from Germany, this promised to be an interesting post – but I didn’t expect it to be like that – quite accurate in many ways! Like you say, there are always exceptions, and stereotypes are part of, but not THE reality – nevertheless, I can confirm that I nodded at every one of your 5 points because I felt they were somewhat true. Well observed:)!
Aurora Kylee via Facebook
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Haha, love it! Thanks for the tips! :)
Alfred Blaho via Facebook
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Hahaha, good to know! Great, I’m not German :-)
crazy sexy fun traveler
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Comment@ Micamyx|Senyorita:
Well, yeah … I should also add to the list .. the weirdest thing is that a good friend (a German guy) disappears from facebook and never answers your messages for a year :D